Zach spinning
Zach's Memories
Zachary David Marmar
July 25, 1982 - June 11, 2009

If you would like your memories of Zach posted here please send your thoughts to this email address:

zachs.memory@gmail.com

What you send can be a story, a poem, a description of time you spent together, an image even - whatever you would like to share with the rest of us folks.

(PS, IF you are on facebook there is also a Zach Marmar group page there.)

June 14, 2009
Gina Lancaster

I remember a few years back when Zach and Sonia came to dinner one Thanksgiving day. We'd had an early snow and Zach's little red car had difficulties on the driveway (o:

Oops!

Zach saw the humor in the situation once he knew the car wasn't damaged.

Zach in 2005

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Sonia and Zach ~ 2005?

Zach's great sense of humour

Hi,
I just wanted to share a short story about Zach.
This past December, he was seeing my sister, Kelly Jean, who invited him to spend Christmas with us. The attached picture (to the right) is of Zach, outside on our deck in the freezing cold, putting on a Christmas night Poi-spinning show for us. He bought gifts for my entire family, and even helped out with the household chores while he was with us. Afterward, he told us "I can honestly say, this is the best Christmas I've ever had!"

I like the tribute website very much, please keep it going.

Patrick Freebern - June 17, 2009

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He will be missed by so many. He touched many people during his life. Zach, you are missed and you were and still are loved by everyone!

Emma Salguero - from Facebook - June 18, 2009

Zach - what a wonderful spirit, living life fully in all it's complexity. I remember ready hugs, a brilliant smile and such warmth and humor... you will be missed!

Star Lancaster - from Facebook - June 15, 2009

I am not quite sure when I first met Zachary David Marmar, my memory being what it is.  But I do remember an invitation to come to an early practice session of a start-up fire spinning group that was to become Pyroteknika.   When I first met him, I did not know what to make of Zach.  He was kind of quiet, but he had a ready smile and an intense interest in fire spinning.  Zach and Sonia Salguero were trying to get a group of young people to band together into an organized, professional, troupe.  It was like herding cats.  In time the group did manage to coalesce into a functioning unit.  For two years Zach’s energy helped to focus us (yes, I did become a fire spinner) and he was always there to wow the audience with some new piece of equipment or a new routine.

He was the leader and the most dedicated performer.  Only something very important or truly insurmountable would prevent Zach from doing a show.  In mid December 2008 we were to do a birthday show in Pomfret.  It had started snowing during the day and by the time evening fell so had considerable snow.  I was not sure if the show could go on, but Zach was going to give it a try.  So leaving my plow on my Trailblazer I headed to Galaxy Hill Road in Pomfret.

When I got to the start of Galaxy Hill I saw what looked like Zach’s little red car attempting the climb.  I suspected that the car would not make it as there was 3 to 4 inches of snow on the road.  I waited at the intersection and sure enough the red car came backing down the hill.  It was Zach, and as he got to where I was parked, he and I rolled down our windows to discuss the situation.  You could see the frustration on his face. When I told him that I would plow the road ahead of him, his eyes lit up and that big smile of his took over his face.

So up the hill I went, with Zach close behind. At the driveway to the house we found 6 to 7 inches of snow.  Zach waited patiently as I made several passes over the driveway so that he could get to the house.  A few minutes later we both were parked at the house.  When Zach got out of the car you could see the relief on his face and again his smile got very big.  Realizing what we had just done we hugged yelling, “We did it!” 

Zach

He and I set up the show while waiting for the others.  As it was still snowing, we had to cover the equipment and shovel snow out of the performance area.  The other spinners were late because they had to go back and get a four wheel drive car.  Zach could not wait and we started the show with out them.  The others arrived about fifteen minutes later and as I watched the group spinning fire in the snow I realized just how much energy and determination Zach had.  It was his sprit that had driven us to conquer the hurdles and put on a fire spinning show that few would soon forget.

This is only one example of Zach’s dedication to fire spinning.  He was a natural.  Time and space preclude the telling of all my adventures with Zach, but those who knew Zach well, will know what I mean. I will miss his never-ending desire to introduce something different and his prompting to try something new.  Thank you Zach, for putting the fire spinning spark in my heart.  I will never forget you.

Richard Lancaster – June 19, 2009

 

It is such sadness. To bury one of our own. And that was who he was. Truly one of US. There is nothing as sad as seeing a bright and vibrant flame extinguished before it's time. And i felt true sorrow. But at the same time. Seeing all of us together again to remember, to talk, to grieve and celebrate. The long stories filled with praise and concern. It made me very happy to be alive. In this world where there is so much love. We all love you Zach. Via Con Dios Amigo. Rest in peace.

Samuel Appleby - from Facebook - June 20, 2009

Zach was and will always be like a brother to me. I knew him for only 4.5 years but it was like I knew him all my life. When he smiled you could see how big his heart is. He was there for Saki and I every day. He was there for everyone. He would never say no when you needed him, and would always have a smile while helping. Zach was a man who loved everyone. When you would see him he would give you a hug, every time, no matter his mood. We all lost a beautiful person when Zach past away, and there will never be another like him. I have to many stories to tell tonight, as we all do with Zach. I hope we all keep sharing the times we had with him.

Zach, we love you, we miss you. You will always be my friend, my brother, the leader of the pack, I miss you!!!. Thank you for being the loving man we all love and know, and my son will always know of you as uncle Zach. I will never forget you my friend. I'll see you in the next life.

Jeffrey S Helm, Stacey N Forest, Aiden Patrick Helm,  & Sakidog - July 1, 2009

Zach and I dated for 2 years in high school. He was my everything!! He showed me alot about life.. some good..some bad. We had a great group of friends and I can not believe he is gone. I've wondered about him over the years and how he was doing. I would hear bits and pieces through the grape vine and just hope for the best.. Rest In Peace Zach, you will always have a place in my heart!

Shannon Santos Burch (Boston, MA) - July 12th, 2009
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